Soul Mate

Do you believe in a soul mate? What exactly do you picture in you mind? Is it something you came up with, or something you’ve heard so many stories about? Those are good stories, aren’t they? What kind of picture are you running in your mind? Let me guess!

He/She is understanding, kind, has great sense of humor, gentle, strong, knows what he/she wants from life, brings out the best in you, makes you feel wonderful, shares her/his inner thoughts, isn’t afraid to be vulnerable, affectionate… You got the picture!

I could go on and on, but I’ll stop and let you think for a second: Is it your fantasy? What exactly you are creating in your mind? Is it something you wish you were?

Wait a minute, you are! That’s why you are looking for someone who will possess all those amazing qualities, and it has to be a soul mate!

Wake up! Take a hard look at yourself. You are just a human. Not a Superman/Wonder Woman.

The reason you are looking for someone is because you are not able to be by yourself.

You are in a survival mode. If it is not economical, then it is emotional or psychological.

You are not even aware of your true motives, so you create a beautiful story about a soul mate.

When you meet someone you like, your mind works really hard, creating and adjusting that person to the image in your mind. You don’t even have time to see a real person. It feels good. You are in love!

In your mind, you picture yourself married and doing all kinds of pleasant activities with the “image” of that person. You are hooked up!

Time goes on and the fantasy wears off. Suddenly you discover you didn’t even know him/her!!! How could you, you were all busy living in a fantasy world and calling it love. It has nothing to do with love.

Love is unconditional; it has no end and no beginning.

Love just is!!! If you don’t get it, you don’t know what love is.

It is ok! We are all human. You are not alone; we are all together in a fantasy “mind” world! And it is ok to be in a survival mode, we just have to be aware of that.

Knowing yourself, realizing, expanding consciousness…